Hello, beautiful souls. Today’s reflection is all about calling in the love you deserve.
Love is something we all crave in different ways. It might look like deeper friendships, a stronger connection with yourself, or the desire for a meaningful romantic relationship. No matter the form, love is not something you have to chase or wait for. It is something you align with, open yourself to, and consciously invite into your life. When your energy matches what you desire, love has a way of finding you exactly where you are.
Self-Love: The Foundation of It All
If there is one truth that never changes, it is this. You cannot fully love others until you love yourself. It may sound familiar, but it matters because self-love is the foundation of every relationship in your life, including the one you have with the universe.
Self-love begins with acceptance. Accepting all parts of yourself. The strengths, the imperfections, and the beautifully messy pieces that make you human. Having flaws does not make you unworthy. It makes you real. When you choose kindness toward yourself, practice gratitude, and set healthy boundaries, you naturally create space for more love, joy, and peace to flow in.
Affirmations can be incredibly powerful in this process. Each morning, take a moment to look at yourself and say, “I am worthy of love,” “I am enough,” and “I love myself exactly as I am.” These words may seem simple, but they shape your mindset and reinforce the truth that you deserve love in every form.
Platonic Love: The Power of Friendships
Platonic love is just as meaningful as romantic love. These are the friendships that uplift you, support you, and remind you that you are not alone. Deep connections like these are something you deserve, and they can be manifested with intention and openness.
To attract the right friendships, you must embody the energy you are seeking. If you want loyal, supportive people in your life, be loyal and supportive yourself. Show up with honesty, kindness, and positive energy. The connections that are meant for you will recognize that frequency.
It is also important to release friendships that no longer align with who you are becoming. Holding on out of obligation only blocks space for new connections to enter. Letting go is not a failure. It is an act of growth and self-respect. The right people will arrive when there is room for them.
Romantic Love: Attracting Your Soulmate
Romantic love often carries the strongest desires and the deepest fears. Many of us dream of a partner who truly understands us and loves us fully. That kind of love is not unrealistic. It exists, and it is available to you when you believe you are worthy of it.
Manifesting romantic love starts with knowing your value. There is no need to settle for less than what feels aligned with your heart. Raising your standards is not asking for too much. It is honoring what you need to feel safe, loved, and fulfilled.
Letting go of past pain is a vital part of this journey. Your previous experiences do not define you. They taught you lessons, but they do not dictate your future. Healing your heart and releasing old fears allows new love to enter without resistance.
When you are emotionally open and grounded in self-worth, you naturally attract partners who reflect that same energy. Creating space for love means releasing unhealthy habits, limiting beliefs, and situations that no longer serve your highest good.
Patience also plays a role. Love often arrives when you are focused on living fully and authentically. Trust the timing. What is meant for you will not miss you.
Manifesting love is not just about intention. It is about alignment. It is about believing you are deserving, doing the inner work, and trusting the process even when you cannot see the outcome yet.
When you feel good about yourself, surround yourself with people who uplift you, and stay clear about the love you want, it becomes easier for that love to find you. Everything unfolds when the time is right.
Be patient with yourself. Stay open. Trust that the universe is always working in your favour.
Sending you so much love and light. You deserve every bit of it, now and always.
Love,
Tanya xoxo
