“It’s never too late to become who you were meant to be.”
If you’re reading this, it means you’re standing at the doorway of a new chapter. So am I. As my parents and Rooco have moved out, I’ve felt a quiet shift in my world. I’m incredibly proud of him and all the hard work that’s paying off, but I didn’t expect this change to hit me so deeply. Still, instead of resisting it, I’ve chosen to lean in. This moment feels like an invitation to begin again and fully embrace this new phase of life.
That’s why I created the New Beginnings Butterfly Ritual. It’s a gentle and supportive guide to help you move through change with courage, softness, and grace. Whether you’re experiencing an empty nest, releasing a relationship, or choosing yourself for the first time in a long while, this ritual is here to remind you that you are safe to begin again.
What brought this message home for me was seeing a butterfly. It is never a coincidence. It is a quiet sign from the universe. A beautiful reminder that you are in the middle of your own transformation. Just like the butterfly, you are unfolding into something new, something stronger, something even more you.
Step 1: Let Go of Fear
Place your hand over your heart. Take a breath and say:
“I am safe to start again. I trust the unknown. I am ready.”
Fear might still show up, but it no longer gets to take the lead. You do. You always have.
Step 2: Write Your Brave Girl List
Take a moment to write out two things:
Things I’m no longer available for:
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Brave moves I’m making this month:
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Place this list somewhere you’ll see it often. It’s more powerful than you know. You are claiming your space. You are choosing your next chapter.
Step 3: Anchor in the Action
Ask yourself, what is one small step I can take today?
It could be booking a course, going for a walk, sending a message, or simply saying yes to something new or no to something draining. Tiny steps add up to massive transformation.
Wear your butterfly and remind yourself each day:
“What I focus on grows, so I focus on the positive.”
Step 4: Affirm Every Time You Wear It
Look in the mirror. Hold your necklace. Smile softly and say:
“I am transforming. I am brave. I am becoming her.”
You are not who you used to be, and that is something to celebrate.
Tanya’s Top 10 Rules for New Beginnings
1. You are not alone.
God, the Universe, your angels — they’re with you always. Speak to them. Ask for signs. Ask for miracles. They are listening.
2. Sometimes things fall apart so something better can come together.
Let go of the struggle. The crumbling is creating space for your upgrade.
3. Trust the timing of your life.
Just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean it’s not coming. Delays are not denials.
4. What you focus on grows.
Put your energy where you want your life to expand. Choose faith over fear.
5. Don’t forget to ask.
Say out loud each day:
“God, Universe, Angels, show me how good my life can get.”
6. Protect your energy like it’s gold.
Avoid gossip, drama, and numbing distractions. Your clarity comes from clean energy.
7. New doesn’t mean wrong.
It simply means unfamiliar. It’s okay to feel wobbly. Keep going anyway.
8. Familiar doesn’t always mean safe.
Your comfort zone might be keeping you from the life you truly want. Choose freedom over familiarity.
9. You only get one life.
Don’t waste it playing small. Make your future self proud that you chose yourself.
10. You are stronger than you think.
You are not broken. You are rebirthing. And your next chapter is going to be more beautiful than you can imagine.
This is your moment. This is your time. You’re not just starting over. You’re rising. You’re remembering. You’re becoming the woman you were always meant to be.
With all my love,
Tanya 🦋
